True Self.

How do I show my true self?

My answer: By loving yourself first! If you love yourself unconditionally, accepting you for who you are. Knowing that ALL you have ever done, said, chose, and were, you did the right thing to get you to become aware and be awake to look deeply into the mirror of all in front of you.

When you love yourself unconditionally your cup will be so filled with compassion that your true love will spill over to others. But when your cup is empty by loving the whole world and you criticize yourself, you will live in resentment thinking "how much more of me must I give to you for you to love me?" That is loving others not yourself.

To become aware is to consciously know that all in your life right now is there for one reason only. That reason is to teach yourself to love YOU first.

Once you take responsibility of your own reality by knowing nothing happens by change, it all happens for you, not to you, and that is when you are so awake to begin to look at each person, situation, event, circumstance, and ask why?

To ask is a universal law. When you ask, your Soul will then work with your mind to begin to show you your answers. We live in a dual reality. We are here to either learn or serve every moment. So then in each moment of your life, ask yourself, "am I learning here, or am I serving so someone else can learn?"

That is showing your true self. By putting YOU first for YOU. That is taking your power back.

Go read my book 'See The Gift Not The Curse" and it will have enough exercises in too that will help you to know the difference between self love and being selfish.