Love and the Duality of it

Thank YOU for all the love and light you spread all over! I also give so much love so freely but sadly, sometimes it's at my own expense, especially in the romance dept. I love completely and unconditionally, and can get very hurt because of this if it's taken for granted. I'm too sensitive and giving for my own good unfortunately, and am struggling with this now actually...feeling confused and torn about where I want to be at this point... My heart tells me to be patient but gut is very curious and wondering how much I can really trust?

I wish I could ask my dad who passed what to do, because I'm sure he knows a lot more about my situation than I do. Does my dad know what lies ahead for me or is this something he does not have any way of knowing yet? Are these things by any chance things that you could foresee at all, since the insight is not from someone who has already passed?

My Answer: Once we don't have the natural five senses and the human ego in the way anymore and we are in Spirit, all veils fall away and we can clearly see our own timelines and all the lessons we still have to complete plus the once we successfully completed. Your dad can see his own but he will not be permitted to interfere with your free choices, unless it is for pure guidance or just for love and support.

You have teachers and guides, as every soul does, who oversee your lessons and evolution for your own soul, who will not allow others to interfere in your growth. Think of it this way. If you have a baby would you give this child steak to eat before they have teeth to chew it? No, because you will know the child could choke and even die from it. You will do whatever you can to protect, teach and gently guide that baby with as much love as you can.

Now, about your other concern about loving too much. This is a huge issue a lot of Light workers are currently facing. First, we had to come to love, and now that we have, we feel miss understood. It's because we have to begin to know the difference between conditional and unconditional love.

As humans we think we know the difference. We don't. When you as a Light worker just feel this immense love others see and feel this now "new love" and fall in love or want to be around you all the time because they know this is real love but all those are seeing and feeling are their remembrance of HOME.

Or, they see your "new love" and take you for granted. Or, when you don't want to go into a serious relationship, they might feel rejected because you don't want to "love" them by marrying them or have sex with them. Now suddenly all Light workers feel there is something "wrong" because "really why don't we want to have sex and fun anymore?" We don't want to mess our energies up anymore because we know now the ramifications when we do become that intimate with someone. Their energy intertwine with ours, and a cord will form. Do we really want all these cords and mixed energies when all we do is clear and let go of baggage?

We begin to feel more and more alone because those who "get" it like we do, also don't want to "give up" their freedom anymore because they enjoyed "being" alone too much like we do. So, now naturally we think there is something "wrong" with us. There isn't.

This new wage of energy is coming into Earth to teach ALL not just the awakened. So naturally, all the awakened ones are chasing that twin soul so they could live happily ever after. The twin soul is a spiritual awakening within self first, where the male and female become one within self first, which is the unconditional love for self, and the "happily ever after" is still the Hollywood love full of conditions. Where, if you love me I'll love you back. Each one of us must now first master this new energy of unconditional love in ourselves before the bonus will arrive and you will find peace within another again.

Your soul is guiding you to truly know yourself first. Trust yourself and let go of those feelings of maybe you are not good enough, or you love too much. When you know unconditional love you will not need or want anyone. And if you do, it will be an absolute bonus for you.

Trust yourself, or begin to trust yourself. The sooner you do then only will your soul place that someone on your path again, or the only ones you will find on your path are those still teaching you to love self.

They will be a mirror for you. The lesson here is to look deeply in each mirror placed before you.

They are reflecting all your clues. Your clues are all in your reality. Spirit will guide but not give away.