A Question Answered

Someone asked me to elaborate on a quote I posted from Charles Haanel. A book, “The Complete Master Key System,” that sold more than 200,0000 copies and then disappeared because it was banned by the Church and has been hidden away for seventy years...

Here is my answer: You are not the only one going through this exact pain, misunderstanding, and confusion, especially now, after our biggest gift - COVID, that hit us like a brick wall in 2020, forcing us to reassess our current states.

Not the external but the internal states.

Yes, the external brick wall was and is needed, as humanity was, and are still not changing.

The majority still refuse to let go of the past and the old that does not serve anymore or keep us in a state of despair. All we currently feel is the separation where, loneliness, sadness, depression, and resentment lives.

Remember, how I profusely told you, and everyone who would listen in 2012 that our Earth will change and big change is coming. This, is still only the beginning, but all of us here and now, are the brave ones who said we were WILLING to come BE that change.

What Charles Haanel is saying here, “Difficulties, inharmonies, and obstacles indicate that we are either refusing to give out what we no longer need, or refusing to accept what we require,” is when we are not in harmony with our ultimate being, or inside, our essence, which is pure unconditional love, (that which is our Source).

Then, we will only experience the opposite, showing us the separation and despair.

Our Source, our beginning point, is LOVE, where we ALL come from. We are now in physical form, a tiny extension, in this physical space, of this pure unconditional LOVE.

So then, if there is difficulty, inharmonies, or obstacles in our lives, we are not in sync with our true nature because we are not letting go of all that which doesn’t resonate with our innate LOVE.

We either don’t love ourselves or our own environments because we don’t take responsibility that we created it, so we project our loneliness, our unhappiness on someone else because we FORGOT that we are LOVE, by seeking the love and acceptance from them.

How can we find love in someone else if we don’t know that its within ourselves first?

So then we come from fear by ‘refusing to give out, (let go) of what we no longer need, or refusing to EVEN accept what we do require.’

How can we accept pure unconditional LOVE (what we do require), if we don’t yet know what it truly is?

We fear any outcome of decisions we make, “what if I make a mistake?” By holding onto what we are familiar with, out of fear of the unknown. Fear of CHANGE, not allowing what we require, true love, true happiness, true peace.

First of all, there are no mistakes.

Every action and decision is JUST and CORRECT from the current understanding.

Source doesn’t make mistakes. So, if you are an extension of Source, you have never made any mistakes.

You only evolved and grew from states of understanding.

For instance; if old clothes, you absolutely adored, and loved doesn’t fit anymore, you don’t hate or destroy it, you lovingly pass it on to someone else, by letting it go.

Knowing someone else might love or might even enjoy it as much as you did.

You don’t wear the crap out of it until it’s so torn to pieces that no one else wants it anymore either.

That is exactly what us humans do to each other when we are in relationships we out grew, because society taught us that divorce is a sin. The only sin there is, is where there is no LOVE.

The kind of love that makes you laugh that fills you with JOY. The love that makes you want to give more. Not the controlling kind of love filled with conditions.

Then it’s like, “clothes, I know you don’t fit me anymore because I grew 50 inches up, down, left and right but I promise you, if you stay on my body, no matter how hard it is, I will keep stitching you together so you can continue to fit, no matter how ugly, painful, and distorted we are together...”

Can you see the conditions involved? Is this an unconditional love?

An unconditional love will be where you lovingly let go, no matter how much you still love it, but KNOWING your experience was of greatness, happiness, joy, even much pain, witnessing how you outgrew it, but also the KNOWING, that the same clothes will be a beautiful fit for someone else too, as it was for you.

Only if you didn’t completely destroyed it with all those conditions attached with the help of society and religion instilling fear of letting go of what doesn’t fit anymore, or if I let go who’s going to take care of me?

But, also KNOW that there will always be another garment that might fit perfectly again, the ever growing older body because ultimately, you can’t take it with you, when you discard this physical body, to be one again with Source, who is pure unconditional love.

In the end, it will only be you and Source. Not you, Source, and your entire closet, the house, the car, the furniture... NO, only you and Source.

But, you will lovingly look at ALL the experiences you had, with the pain, until you remembered, who and what you are, was, and ALWAYS will BE!

LOVE!

If you didn’t remember, then you come do it again, until we can bring that “remembering” into the physical with us, so ALL our relationships, will be of pure unconditional love and not filled with all the conditions anymore.

That’s why we are here.

Not to put conditions on our relationships but to honor pure unconditional love.

If it’s not in your life now, you are still coming from the old where you must learn to unconditionally love yourself first.

Then, it’s time to let that old clothes go, where you can learn what it is to love yourself unconditionally first. With all your mistakes, (which none were mistakes), with all your fatness, (you only enjoyed food and maybe too much the fattening kind), all your past “loves” (because you were seeking love in them, not knowing you must find it within first...)

If you KNOW unconditional love for self first, you will never seek or even want it somewhere else. It will no longer be a search, an urge, a longing, but rather an unfolding to witness of what else is possible.

Then only, did you succeed in volunteering to come here and BE the CHANGE.

Humanity must and will change.

There is no more turning back!

Not exactly what you wanted to hear but definitely needed for so many, to stop wanting to change others to fit our mold of what love should be.

Love is not what Hollywood made us believe it is...

Let go but do not discard. There is a difference. Especially if children are involved.

Find the love within you first. You might still feel that, “that AWESOME” love will be in someone else? It’s not... it’s only within you.

If you are still searching for love in someone else because in the end all we want is for someone to love us, then there is no love for self.

That AWESOME love is what Hollywood made us believe is real. It doesn’t exist other than in conditions.

If you truly KNOW what is unconditional LOVE, you will never be alone again. You will never feel incomplete again, and most of all, you will never fear letting go!